On March 7th, 1941, a star fell from heaven, landing in Brooklyn,
New York, and in the form of a bouncing baby girl, Joan was born, to the
late
Glarice Ford and Farris Ruff. Her childhood was spent
in Far Rockaway and Jamaica, New York. Joannie was educated within the
New York City school system, graduating from Jamaica Vocational High School
where Joannie majored in Tailoring and Dressmaking. She became most proficient
in making garments for herself and members of her family. After graduation,
Joannie worked in a factory specializing in making baby clothes for many
of the top department stores. Joan met and married William Boatswain Junior
in 1960; and from that union their daughter Valerie, was born. Joan then
stayed home as a housewife and a mother for many years, nurturing and caring
for her family. When it became necessary for her to return to work, she
worked at many different jobs, including foster parenting, and lastly,
as a home attendant, which really met her desire to be of service to others,
thereby insuring her wards of the best care she could possibly give. Approximately
four years ago, failing health caused Joan to give up her livelyhood and
begin to pay more attention to herself. Each one that knew her has their
own personal memories of Joan. And through our memories she will always
be alive in our hearts and minds. Never one for a sad face or frown, Joannie
took the bitter with the sweet and made us laugh about it. Straight forward,
always calling a spade a spade, our Joannie never dressed reality up.
Joan leaves to mourn her loss,
her daughter Valerie, 1 granddaughter Shanel and 1 gandson
Keith, a sister
Florence, 1 foster brother Robert, 2 aunts, Alva and
Alfreda, 2 nieces,
Tanya and Cynthia. 5 nephews, Eric, Willoughby, Stephen,
Darrin and
Russell a large number of greatnieces and greatnephews
and a few
great-great nieces and nephews. She also leaves to mourn
her cousins
Gerald, Ronald and Sandi and many more relatives.
Also many
loving and caring friends.
When first I heard my Aunt had passed I felt a pain that
would forever last, the empty the void the memories and yes, the pain and
tears. But then came smiles through all my pain I soon forgot my fears.Only
once can you meet someone as
real and true an Joan And if she cared about you, you
could feel it to the bone.
Never one to bite her tongue and always spoke her mind,
"Boney Joannie" was just a call away and always a joy to find. When the
chips were down and all
hope seemed gone I knew I could call and find Aunt Joan
at home.
It didn't matter how many years had passed Aunt Joan brought
you back to reality fast. After getting on my case about "just now calling"
She'd start talking and laughing-on the floor I would be falling.The love
that she gave me, The care
that she showed Tall as a waist-high garden That had
never been mowed.
A GARDEN FILLED WITH LOVE.
Cynthia
I am home in Heaven, dear ones;
Oh, so happy and so bright
There is perfect joy and beauty
All the pain and grief is over
Every restless tossing passed;
I am now at peace forever
Safely home in Heaven at last.
Did you wonder I so calmly
Trod the valley of the shade?
Oh! but Jesus love illumined
Every dark and fearful glade.
And He came Himself to meet me
In that way so hard to tread;
And with Jesus' arm to lean on
Could I have one doubt or dread?
Then you must not grieve so sorely,
For I love you dearly still,
Try to look beyond earth's shadows,
Pray to trust our Father's Will.
There is work still waiting for you,
So you must not idly stand;
Do it now, while life remaineth.
You shall rest in Jesus' hand
When that work is all completed,
He will gently call you Home;
Oh, the rapture of that meeting,
Oh, the joy to see you come!
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